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It's hard to get older when sex isn't what it used to be. And for some people, this getting older starts before age 30.
It's not that you would not want to want. But you can't make yourself want when you just don't want. And that's a condition men suffer from, and women even more.
You want sexual desire because you remember, or even just read, that sexual desire is the door to happiness through orgasms. But what do you do when the desire just isn't there.
desire is much more complicated than, for example, erections in men. Erections are vascular events in the penis. Most men have erections when they sleep, and often wake up with one. No sexual desire or sexual stimulation needed for this.
And pharmaceuticals of the phosphodiesterase class, such as sildenafil, are quite reliable in engineering erections. Orgasms on sildenafil, on the other hand, are so-so. Sometimes, men can't even achieve an orgasm, though sildenafil caused an erection alright.
I am not much in favor if these synthetic phosphodiesterase inhibitors. And it's not even because orgasms usually are weak.
I have a more serious concern, and this is the stroke risk associated with synthetic phosphodiesterase inhibitors like sildenafil, the active ingredient in Viagra.
Strokes are terrible events. Some strokes can be so severe that people thereafter suffer from locked-in syndrome. You can just google locked-in syndrome to find case reports.
Locked-in is when people are fully awake and conscious but have no means to communicate or interact with the outside world. They can't talk even though in their minds they form sentences just like people who haven't had a stroke.
Locked-in people also can't move a single limb. But their breathing works normally, so they just don't die.
Oh Lord, give me a comfortable death. Even a fast death will do. Just spare me from a severe stroke resulting in locked-in syndrome.
Now, if you aren't afraid of strokes, just go ahead with your consumption of Viagra for so-so sex.
On the other hand, you may want to try krachai dam (kaempferia parviflora) to improve your erectile responsiveness (available in my online shop, see below). It's not that kaempferia parviflora would give you erections when you are not mentally prepared. But if and when you are properly aroused, your erection will be better, much better.
And in order to be sexually aroused more easily than you currently experience, your best bet is a combination of tongkat ali and butea superba extracts. The combination is a powerful testosterone and dopamine booster, with the dopamine component greatly enhanced by the addition of the butea superba.
Mind you, testosterone and dopamine levels are interrelated mostly via a third player, the hormone prolactin. Prolactin, the hormone that initiates lactation in women who have given birth or are about to give birth, suppresses both testosterone and dopamine. That is why so many women suffer from postpartum depression. They feel sexually just flat.
Unfortunately, I am not in a position to recommend a tongkat ali / butea superba regimen to women who have given birth and lament a loss of sexual desire.
But all others, please feel free to buy from me. I sell the sexual enhancement herbals manufactured by Sumatra Pasak Bumi. They have been in business for 30 years and have set the standard for hormonal and dopaminergic sexual elevation.
I sell all products manufactured by tongkatali.org, even their most popular libido enhancement formula of butea superba extract plus tongkat ali extract. Also their krachai dam (kaempferia parviflora) and even their sirih leaf extract.